I feel as though this type of conversation is only STARTED by people like you.
Everyone else is getting on with their lives and now here you are, ruining any semblance of peace by repeating something you passively heard some struggling stand-up comedian joke about on YouTube shorts or whatever.
The comedians, usually very very Rich people, complain because they are worried about maintaining the average amount they are paid I.e by keeping their social relevance. Then you repeat it on the internet because you somehow think you’re involved, like you are endanger or losing your livelihood, because you were born binary in your mind.
I was born binary, but I actually can see why people bring it up like you do, or like the comedians do (see above.)
It’s sad because this is regular folks falling for the fearmongering of people vastly beyond them in terms of wealth.
These conversations are started and ended by rich people


