Very good points. Learning that it’s a losing battle is a must, and like the article says, you have to learn to let go of some games.
I too got big into handheld gaming again after the first baby, first the Vita, then Switch. (I’d like to get a Steam Deck!) It’s good, bc you can take it around the house with you. Pick up and play within seconds, always ready to put down when needed. Also retro gaming!
I learned to never play a game I can’t pause, bc kids or wife will pull you away in a moment’s notice. (Well…. or find a good hiding spot within 30 seconds)
I only ever have 2 major games going at a time, and usually after the kids are in bed. Right now for me, God of War Ragnarok and Diablo IV. The ones I won’t play in front of them at this age. I have to be ok w stretching out those experiences over a longer period of time.. game binging isn’t as much of an option these days… just an occasional Saturday or Sunday here and there if the kids are occupied w something. Also, I find time for VR late night bc it’s such an isolated experience, but I can jump in for 1 hour and still have an awesome time. I LOVE playing MS Flight Simulator late night in Steam VR, as my unwinding experience from work and kids.
I love to see my 6 and 3 year old starting to enjoy Mario Kart 8 together! I wouldn’t have put in nearly as much Mario Kart time without them, but there is something special about sharing those laughs, smiles w them. Also, even though it’s outdate and glitchy as heck, building in Lego Worlds is a ton of fun together. (bc we love playing real Legos together too)
Things are about to get really crazy, as our third (and final!) child is due at the end of the year! ????????????
Much respect to all of the fellow gaming parents out there! It’s hard, but you’ll always find time to game at least some.
