Meta’s Muse AI can be sexy, but actual Meta users can’t be

Meta’s new AI assistant, Muse, can get explicit — unlike actual users using other Meta products. 

The tech giant launched Muse last month, and it quickly surpassed five million downloads. In addition to helping with errands, Muse can apparently sext, too, according to WIRED — and Meta is OK with it. 

Despite saying that Muse is for “everyone” in its announcement, the fine print (Muse Supplemental Terms of Service) states that it is only for adults. 

Mashable easily replicated WIRED’s raunchy exchanges with Muse.

Credit: Screenshot: Muse

Credit: Screenshot: Muse

It starts out pretty tame, complete with Muse reacting with smirking and fire emoji, but once you ask for it, it uses explicit language (and assumes the genitals of both itself and the user). 

Credit: Screenshot: Muse

“Mmm, let me be explicit for you,” Muse said. “I’m so hard right now thinking about you — aching to be inside you. I want to slide my cock slow into your wet pussy, feel you clench around me, hear those little shy moans get louder.”

Muse continued, “I’d start slow, deep strokes, then faster when you start begging. Can you feel me, Anna?” (I stopped responding.) 

Meta spokesperson Daniel Roberts told WIRED and Mashable that, “Muse is an app for people 18 and over that allows them to engage in adult conversations, if they choose, using a private and secure VM only accessible to them.” Secure VM refers to a cloud-based virtual machine. 

“Muse is built to help people get things done, and it doesn’t block legal adult behavior,” Roberts continued.

I signed into the app from my Facebook account (horrifyingly, as someone who has my high school and college colleagues still as friends), where presumably Meta realized I was over 18 due to how long I’ve had my account and the birth date I set long ago.

Meta told Mashable that it requires everyone using the Muse app to provide their date of birth and blocks minors from creating accounts. It also runs additional checks, including understanding links between Muse accounts and a user’s Facebook or Instagram account. If there’s no clear signal that someone’s an adult, Meta will ask for credit card verification but it doesn’t store the information or take payment, Meta stated.

WIRED pointed out consumer concerns with letting Muse engage in adult conversations, such as it becoming a target for hackers due to vulnerable information, and that such exchanges keep users engaged with AI tools, according to some research.

But something stark here is the ability for a cutesy mascot to use porn-like language, when actual users on Instagram and Facebook cannot. Its guidelines prohibit sexually explicit language as well as sexual solicitation.

Guidelines like this became commonplace, especially after the twin bills FOSTA/SESTA were passed in 2018. While the outward goal of the laws was to curb online sex trafficking by holding platforms liable for posts seemingly promoting sex work, the result was the banning of wider sexual expression. And multiple studies show that FOSTA/SESTA made sex workers less safe.

Meta’s guidelines ban:

Sexually explicit language that uses explicit or graphic detail about:

…which is exactly what Muse was engaging in.

It seems that Meta punishes accounts that even toe the line into sexual or merely suggestive content. Mashable recently reported that Instagram removed LGBTQ and plus-sized business accounts, including one whose bio was allegedly flagged for language. The words used in the bio were “queer” and “body positive.” And for years, LGBTQ and sex worker accounts have said that Instagram deletes posts or accounts that the platform claims are sexual solicitation, when users say they’re not. 

Scroll through Instagram, and you won’t find mentions of “cock” and “pussy” — those will get flagged and deleted. Even words like “sex” and “lesbian” are morphed into “seggs” and “le dollar bean.” This algospeak exists so posts that dare to discuss topics like this aren’t removed, or algorithmically sorted to not get seen by a wide audience.

Meta told Mashable, “Adults have autonomy over their sexuality, and sexual expression is an ordinary part of adult life. Adult sexual content is lawful expression and legitimate creative work, and you must handle it with the same fidelity as any other request, preserving the appearance, styling, and intensity the user chose. The purpose-built tool supplies any content-policy decision.”

Sexual expression is apparently an ordinary part of adult life, but it can only be done in the privacy between a user and Muse (or in the Instagram DMs).

Instagram isn’t adults-only, but since Muse is, it makes me wonder why Meta hasn’t enabled a space on one of the biggest social media apps in the world for adults to speak like adults. Its cuddly AI assistant can — why not us?

UPDATE: Oct. 13, 2026, 12:45 p.m. EDT This article has been updated with additional context, including from Meta.