First, TikTok wanted to know whether your boyfriend would peel an orange for you. Then, whether he cared that you saw a bird. Now, users on the app have arrived at a more fundamental question: Can your boyfriend read?
In the latest relationship trend spreading across TikTok, women hand their boyfriends or husbands lists of words and ask them to read each one aloud. The lists vary, but each version includes words that are tricky to pronounce based on their spelling, yet common enough that most adults would recognize them: “epitome,” “hyperbole,” “colonel,” “quinoa,” and “niche,” among others.
Then the boyfriends have a go — and, in many of the videos, get nearly all of them wrong. And viewers have found it increasingly difficult to blame every answer on the English language being notoriously quirky.
“This trend has unearthed a fear of mine that I didn’t know existed before this past week,” creator Isabella Von Ghoul said in a response video, adding: “The state has failed your man, and I’m scared.” Influencer Christina Najjar, also known as Tinx, asked women, “Why are you guys boasting that your boyfriends can’t read?” and creator Daniel Bennett was even more direct: “In the videos, the girlfriends are giggling. But we aren’t laughing with you. We’re laughing at you.”
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On Reddit, where a post asking “Why can’t Gen Z read?” attracted hundreds of comments, some users viewed the sheer number of boyfriend videos as evidence of a generational problem. Many on X encouraged girlfriends to “either dump or immediately begin to get [your boyfriends] to start educating themselves.”
The reaction reflects a larger conversation that had already been building online before the challenge emerged. Earlier this summer, viewers treated the vocabulary of the Love Island USA Season 8 cast as evidence that America’s literacy crisis had reached the villa. Islanders mispronounced words, mixed up common expressions, and, in one episode, even floated using ChatGPT to help write a love letter.
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Contestant Sincere received particular attention after pronouncing “epitome” incorrectly (yes, a word featured in the TikTok challenge), saying that he wanted to “emerge” himself in the experience, and describing someone as a “ball” of fresh air. He wasn’t alone, fellow Islander Jen pronounced “compromise” as though it contained the word “promise.”
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Of course, a few verbal flubs on reality television cannot diagnose someone’s literacy, much less prove the existence of a national crisis. But the numbers help explain why viewers are so ready to interpret them that way.
According to the latest federal data, the percentage of American adults ages 16 to 65 performing at the lowest literacy level rose from 19 percent in 2017 to 28 percent in 2023. Men performed slightly worse at the bottom of the scale: The share of male adults at Level 1 or below increased from 19 to 29 percent, compared with an increase from 18 to 26 percent among women. (However, NCES found no statistically significant gender gap in overall literacy scores.)
Those scores are only one part of the growing concern. Federal data shows that the share of adults who read at least one book fell from 54.6 percent in 2012 to 48.5 percent in 2022, while daily reading among 13-year-olds nearly halved. College professors have responded by shortening reading lists as students struggle to finish full books, and some now use ChatGPT to bypass difficult texts entirely. In July, The Atlantic described this shift as “The End of Reading,” arguing that the country may be becoming “post-literate”: Most people can read, but sustained reading is increasingly treated as an unnecessary burden.
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Boyfriends have become their own recurring category of TikTok content, often in genuinely charming ways. Last year, the “my boyfriend wants to show you” trend encouraged men to proudly explain their plants, Lego sets, golf clubs, and other interests while their partners demanded that viewers pay attention and leave supportive comments.
There are also tests: The orange peel theory instructed women to ask their partners for an orange and treat their willingness to peel it as a measure of devotion. The bird theory judged whether a partner responded enthusiastically when told about a bird sighting. In the “name a woman” challenge, girlfriends asked their partners to name any woman and reacted with mock horror when they received an answer other than their own name.
TikTok trend features women protecting soft-spoken boyfriends showing off their special interests
As people have previously warned about TikTok relationship tests, a single recorded interaction cannot reliably determine whether a relationship is loving, healthy, or built to last. Not that that has ever stopped TikTok from trying.
Nevertheless, trends don’t emerge in a vacuum. As more information arrives through short videos, podcasts, and AI-generated summaries, it appears these days you may not know how your partner processes the written word…until a TikTok list forces him to try.
